It is rather common for people in love to send each other songs they favorite and deem romantic o have a message they want to say themselves but find it easier to let the song say it for them.
Another example I came across Was when I was flirting with a girl. As we talked she sent me a text with this “If I told you that a flower bloomed in a dark room, would you trust it?” (from Poetic Justice of Kendrick Lamar) and right after a link to YouTube to Johnny Rain’s LLWH.
So, I’m listetening to the song and I hear this part:
You have my love
You have my heart
You’ve got everything that tore us apart
This is why I neveAnnotater learn to trust correctly
We both know you could never just forget me
I’d love you if you ever really let me
Would you let me?
So I think ‘well, we are into each other, things are looking great’ But as I continue listening this part hits me:
You’re standing there
With an empty look of envy
You ain’t come prepared
You don’t have to see what’s in me
Girl, I’m one to care
And I’m ridin’ where the simps be
I swear they tryna get me
Fuck you think this is?
Look what you did to me
You fucking piece of shit
I’m everything that you pretend to be
I thought that we were meant to be
… Fuck you
So here I got confused again… Does she love me or she thinks I am a piece of shit?
As you can see in those two examples, a song can send different message than the one you were thinking about. You might get lucky and the other person would get the one you intended, but chances are is not going to work like that. For some reason when is about love relationships we get to sensitive, either about falling to hard or been too skeptical. As in any case, when we send a song or when we receive it we only hear what we want to hear and we don’t think of how the other person is going to perceive it.
I am not saying that you should stop using songs to express your feelings, but if you are going to do it, better analyze the whole song and think how the other person is going to read it before you send it… that way you know that the right message was delivered.